Stop and Squeeze TechniqueStop Technique: When you feel that you are getting too close to your P.O.N.R., stop whatever you are doing, take a deep breath and wait up to a minute before resuming any form of stimulation. Once you feel your level of arousal dropping, resume stimulation exercises. The secret to making this work is to really stop. Do not make your lover feel isolated during your break and above all, don't be afraid of looking ridiculous or depriving her of pleasure. The proper use of finesse will enable you to apply this technique avoiding all potential awkwardness. Squeeze Technique: The squeeze technique is just what it sounds like. Start by squeezing your penis with your hand. When you feel like you are getting near your P.O.N.R., do the squeeze in combination with the previous breathing and stop technique. When you feel close to your P.O.N.R., stop, pull out, take a deep breath and squeeze hard below the head of your penis with your thumb and first two fingers for several seconds. After your excitement level slightly drops, resume intercourse. A variation would be to squeeze your penis at the base instead of just below. You may also be able to grip the penis at the base without having to pull out. Simply stop, take a deep breath and squeeze to the base of the penis until the urge to ejaculate subsides.
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